I am in the midst of updating a booklet I wrote for families grieving the loss of a loved one. In the latest version of the booklet (I Stand By the Door), I added a chapter entitled “When We Harm Ourselves”. What does God have for us when we are at our worst, weakest, and if we commit self-harm? I believe He offers us His patience and understanding. There are few sins as great as taking one’s own life. Its an affront to God’s sovereignty and the desperate act leaves family and friends baffled. But, is it unpardonable? No. Terrible? Yes. Perhaps the strongest argument from those who disagree comes from Paul’s letter to the Corinthian church. However, what few would understand is that the “you” Paul refers to as the “temple of God” is plural. Its a reference to believers (plural) as Paul strengthens his plea for unity within the church.
Do you not know that you are a temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? If any man destroys the temple of God, God will destroy him, for the temple of God is holy, and that is what you are. 1 Corinthians 3:16-17 NASB
How am I fostering unity within the church? How highly do I value the holiness of the “temple of God”?
God, as this day begins- I thank You for Your amazing idea of the church. May she shine with the light and love of Christ throughout the world. May families dealing with loss from a child or family member who fatally harmed themselves find solace in Your comfort as they deal with the unanswered questions.
